Mindful Sobriety for Holidays

Navigating Thanksgiving and Holiday Triggers

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Mindfully Navigating Holiday Gatherings
Sobriety Step 1 – Mindfully Evaluate Habitual Interactions with Family and Friends
Sobriety Step 2 – Make a Plan to Deal with Emotional Triggers
Sobriety Step 3 – Use Mindfulness to Stay Present

Thanksgiving Sobriety Planning

Here we are at another Thanksgiving and Holiday Season. Happy Thanksgiving!

For many, this can include visits with friends and family. And for many, those visits will be a minefield of relapse triggers.

For those without family or friends to visit – Thanksgiving and winter holidays are a lonely time that can also be a major trigger and challenge to sobriety.

Are there ways to experience holidays without relapse or major depression? Holidays can be stressful – but they are not destined to be depressing. It is vitally important to have a Sobriety Plan.

Holiday Sobriety Planning Tips

1. Make a firm and unshakable resolve to remain Sober.
2. Remember self care: Check H.A.L.T. – Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired.
3. Avoid people, places and things that bring memories of previous drinking or drugging.
4. Have Strategies and a Plan for Relapse Prevention in Place; know potential obstacles.
5. Self Regulate and Communicate; Return to Common Ground Topics
6. Manage emotions; use Mindfulness to stay in the present moment.
7. Attend recovery support group meetings, such as SMART Recovery, AA, NA, ACA, NarAnon
8. If family gatherings are too stressful or toxic – attend support group meetings and/or spend time with supportive friends.
9. Use mindfulness to acknowledge and work with emotions – do not ‘bury’ unpleasant emotions.
10. Allow yourself to have Real Fun – Sober. Create new sober holiday traditions.
11. Give Thanks: Implement ‘Gratitude as an Attitude‘ whenever possible.
12. Sobriety is the Priority. (And have a back-up plan in place).

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In the Northern California area – New Start Recovery Solutions has convenient locations for Medical Detox, Residential or Outpatient Alcohol and Drug Addiction Treatment with Dual Diagnosis (Co-occurring Disorders) Integrated Treatment.

Long-term addiction recovery is dependent on discarding habitual behaviors – and instead engaging in new sober activities.

New Start Recovery Solutions uses a whole person approach to healing and addiction recovery. This includes mindfulness.

Clients are introduced to new habits, rituals, and wellness techniques for mind, body and spirit. Holistic recovery in the residential program at New Start Recovery Solutions includes evidence-based addiction treatment along with mindfulness practices, yoga, tai chi and positive psychology.

Mindfully Navigating Holiday Gatherings

Step 1 – Mindfully Evaluate Your Habitual Interactions with Family and Friends

Before Thanksgiving, create a list of ways your family or friends usually trigger negative emotions. Be honest with yourself without judgement.

The ‘trigger list’ can be hand-written or typed on your computer or mobile device. The act of actively and mindfully considering – and then recording – emotional triggers is an important process. Be honest with yourself without applying any judgement. Everyone has emotions and negative emotional triggers. There is no evaluation required for emotional triggers – having emotional triggers does not make an individual a ‘bad’ person. It means we are human.

Make a careful consideration regarding your situation. If family or friends are too toxic to deal with at this time – or they are actively engaged in substance abuse – it may be better to find other socialization and support during holidays.

Step 2 – Make a Plan to Deal with Emotional Triggers

Create a plan to mindfully deal with holiday gatherings and interactions. Prepare to succeed in practicing mindful presence at holiday gatherings.

Avoid building expectations based on wishful thinking and avoidance of reality. Wishful thinking can include elements such as:

•  ‘This is the year we all get along’
•  ‘This is the year my relatives (or friends or co-workers) really understand and appreciate me’
•  ‘This is the year a holiday miracle happens!’

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Prepare ways to politely sidestep tense conversations and interactions.

• Go outside for a breath of fresh air.
• Help in the preparations.
• Play a video game with the kids.
• Proactively use compassion and kindness in interactions.

Be the first to compliment a grouchy relative on their new hair style. Tell your exhausted sister or brother that they are doing well in work or as parents. Make positive remarks whenever possible.

Step 3 – Use Mindfulness to Stay Present

“There are only two mistakes one can make along the road to truth; not going all the way, and not starting.”

What is mindfulness? Mindfulness is having the internal focus to be quietly aware of your own thoughts and impulses – without judgment and without acting on the impulses.

Studies have shown that alterations in brain and immune function are produced by mindfulness meditation. With mindfulness practice, new neural networks are created in the brain.

Mindfulness meditation is associated with structural changes in areas of the brain that are important for sensory, cognitive and emotional processing.

Mindfulness meditation research shows that Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention is effective. Study results find that mindfulness interrupts reactive behaviors and encourages thoughtful and skillful responses to relapse triggers.

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